Wednesday, September 24, 2008

eating better = sad children

This past month our family has been trying to be better at being prepared (ie; 72 hour kits, etc) It costs a big chunk of money to get 72 hour kits and emergency supplies ready for 7 people. In an effort to teach my children about the cost involved, I showed them the receipts from my purchases and we had a family home evening lesson about being prepared and why it was so important that we spend this money. After the lesson, I wanted to drive the point home, so we had a discussion on ways we could all help save a little money ~ the kids had great ideas about eating all of their home lunch and not wasting food, turning off lights and not leaving the water running, etc...all of the "Sunday school" answers. Then I said "How about if we try not to eat out at restaurants for the next little while?" The kids all looked stunned - 5 blank faces stared at me and then my 5 year old said "can we just go to McDonald's?" (they have cool Batman toys in their happy meals right now) My reply was "No, not even McDonald's" and then I added "It won't be so bad, we don't really go out to eat that often!" So, with much hesitation and a little sadness, it was decided that we would not go out to eat until November...that's 6 weeks. Now, I am afraid this will be harder for me - more so than the kids. I am the one who gets running errands and gets busy and then orders pizza on "2 for Tuesday" so that the kids will go to bed with something in their stomachs. I am also the one who doesn't think to pack Coleman lunch and then we run out of time and end up getting cool Batman toys with some chicken nuggets and a lemonade at the drive thru at McDonald's. So...since it was already going to be difficult, I decided to make it even more difficult by insisting that we would also be trying to go without so much sugar during these 6 weeks. Now...if you thought my kids were sad about not eating out, their sadness probably tripled with the thought of no more sugar. Now...I should insert here that I didn't say "no more sugar", just less sugar, but my 5 little ones heard "no more sugar-EVER!" To help them realize just how much sugar they were consuming each day, I took them to the grocery store with me to read labels. Not only was it a huge eye opener for them...I was shocked at how much sugar they were consuming in simple tings like "Capri Sun" pouches and the snacks they took in their school lunches! So we are now on the road to eating better and every time I remind my kids about our "new healthy plan" I see a bunch of sad shoulders and I have to give them a little pep talk about all of the good things that we CAN eat. Even though it will be a little harder than I thought, I know it will be worth it in the long run. I'm already sick of the complaining and whining every time meal time or snack time rolls around...and it's only been 3 days!

6 comments:

J9 said...

Good luck Jodi! This is SO hard and the kids are the last ones to be convinced. Just this morning I had to take the cookies, pudding and chewy granola bar out of Samuel's lunchbox and tell him he could only pick one. I gave him several other options and he didn't like any of them so he said that he would just have to starve. Of course I had to tell him that yes, he would starve if he didn't choose to eat healthy foods! Add me to the "mean mom" list right along with you! Oh and ditto about not eating out being hard on you too!

The Porter Family said...

Hey, you are the meanest mom? I thought I was the meanest mom!

Anyway, gosh Jodi, I am so impressed! It is such a great plan and I wish you much success. As for me, I ordered white chocolate macadamia nut cookies at the fun raiser and just got them a few days ago...so, every night I cook up a sheet and eat 3. Can you come over and supervise me, too?

Nikki said...

You go girl!!! I think this is great..umm could you send me the receipes and the shopping list...lol

Stacey said...

Have fun with that one! I thought I got ornery when I dieted. Wouldn't like to see a whole house of dieters. You'll do great and keep working at that 100 miles before the cruise.

Stacey said...

What happened to the R.S. General Conference post?

Heather said...

Wow...that is amazing. I would be sad if my mom made me do that too. I love Taco Bell and Diet Coke too much